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Oh My! Monday: You'll never have sex again... what?

Monday, October 27, 2014

*Note This is not a sponsored post. All opinions are my own and not influenced by others in any matter.*
 
Sex Tape (film).jpgThis weekend we rented SEX TAPE. FUNNY! If you have not seen it, you should. I was rolling on the couch and cracking up. Jake and I kept looking at each other and laughing. It's easily relatable to anyone with kids because they were completely honest in it. They didn't try to add any Hollywood fluff.
 
It follows the story of Jay and Annie, they fall in love, have ridiculous amounts of sex, get pregnant, get married, have another kid and of course, they don't have sex anymore. When they announce their pregnancy to her parents, her father says well no more sex. Of course, every parent will laugh there. Again, easily relatable. They don't have sex and try to "schedule" it constantly. Finally the idea of making a sex tape comes up. Which the whole thing is hysterical and like typical movie stories, going to be a disastrous situation. Then it is the struggles of getting "back" the video after it's uploaded to the cloud. Hilarity over and over. 
 
For me, this was an amazing movie. Annie is a mommy blogger. She writes about her life and the real struggles. The movie starts out with her writing a blog post and asking, When was the first time your husband saw you naked? Then when was the second? Now do you remember the last time?
 
Before kids, sex is so easy and so natural. It's fun and there isn't any work in it. After kids, it's a whole new ball game. You have trouble feeling sexy, things don't look like they did before you got pregnant and where is the time? Any parent will tell you, it was hard to be intimate with their SO after kids came into the picture. You're too tired, the kid wakes up, or there is a kid in your bed. I know you're laughing and nodding your head in agreement with me.
 
Every romantic comedy has a grand epiphany with the moral. This one was that we, as parents, quite often forget about our significant other and devote all of our time and energy to our children. That's great but you can't forget about one another. Intimacy is something that we try to act like we don't need but we do. When I say intimacy, I don't mean just having sex. It can be, cuddling on the couch watching a movie. Back rubs for one another. A little flirting or even some fun texts.

I have made plenty of wise cracks about how we aren't even near intimate the amount we were before we were parents. That's ok. We flirt with each other constantly. We make jokes about sex and have fun with it. So, get a sitter, order in some food, and rent a movie. It will be worth it.

*Alyssa*

12 comments:

  1. I don;t have kids, but we live crazy busy lives. Each of us are gone from the home during the week more than 12 hours each day. Being intimate is an absolute necessity, but sometimes you just want to sleep o watch the latest episode of Sons of Anarchy. Am I right? I can;t imagine how much more difficult it would be with a child in the mix. I'm exhausted just thinking about it. Parents seem to be amazingly resiliant creatures. LOL!

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    1. With out intimacy, you're just to people under the same roof. And I don't about being resilient, more zombie like.

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  2. This is fantastic and oh so true:) I'll have to rent this now!

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  3. True, so true. I want to rent it the clips have been hilarious that I've seen. I laugh every time I see the ad where they lost the video to the cloud! ...

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    1. Totally worth the redbox fee. It is even funnier than the previews.

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  4. Great review! Now I see why you added the disclaimer, haha! Definitely makes me want to go watch it!! - Ana

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  5. That was filmed in the Boston area (and my good friend named Alyssa actually worked on it). I really want to see it, it sounds hilarious. And oh how children really put a damper on a couple's intimacy. ;-)

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  6. 'Did you watch sex tapes?' hahaha ;) xo

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    1. Omfw, so wish I could have seen your face when you read my text.

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  7. Sex is so so important in a marriage... and it gets so much harder to fit it in once you have kids.. .but you gotta do it!! :) Great reminder ; )

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